Hi! It’s me, Bethany

Principal | Resilience United Consulting 

I am a college football fanatic (#Boomer #Sooner!), mom of two, and a nonprofit fundraising nerd through and through.

I spent the first chapter of my career in for-profit sales, growing million-dollar partnerships and chasing the next big goal. And while I was good, really good, it wasn’t the work that made my heart sing. So, I learned how to fundraise while being the most involved board member the YMCA’s of San Diego County has ever had (probably). Then, in 2015, I went back to school, got my master’s, and changed my stars, leaping into nonprofit leadership and development professionally. That leap brought me across states, through hard pivots (hello, COVID), and into a world where my skills and my heart finally got to work together.

I started Resilience United because I know what it’s like to keep the golf tournament alive, try a new campaign, launch the peer-to-peer platform, while also keeping up with your emails and trying to get home in time to kiss your kid goodnight. I’ve lived it. And I know what it feels like when you're pouring everything into a mission you love and feel like you’re losing yourself in the process.

This work matters. And you matter too.

That’s why I’m here: to help nonprofits and fundraisers find paths that are smart, sustainable, and actually doable. No overwhelm. No burnout. Just strategy that aligns with your mission, your audience, and your capacity so you can grow what’s working, ditch what’s not, and finally breathe a little easier.

If any of that hits home, I’d love to chat. (Fair warning: I might cry over a good thank-you note.)

Grant Writing & Management

Our approach combines big-picture strategy with boots-on-the-ground execution, so your grants get written and your goals get funded.

Let’s build something resilient together.

  • Custom Grant Pipelines

  • Year-round Grant Management

  • Single Grant Projects

  • Foundation, Corporate & Government Grants

  • Funder Relationship Strategies

Fundraising Strategy
& Implementation

From advising to full execution, our fundraising support scales with your goals, team, and capacity.

You will not find cookie-cutter strategies here.

  • Corporate Giving & Sponsorship

  • Board Fundraising Engagement

  • Annual Giving

  • Giving Day Campaigns

  • Peer-to-Peer & Individual Giving

Social Media, Marketing,
& Communications

We create story-focused digital content for social media, email, and campaigns so your team can focus on the big stuff: relationships.

We write the story. You build the relationships. Your mission wins.

  • Full Campaigns

  • Ongoing Communications Management

  • Social Media

  • Emails

  • Newsletters

  • Strategy & Story Development

Coaching & Training

Investing in yourself and your people is the wisest long game in this work. Whether you're leading solo, developing your team, or igniting your board, we offer coaching and training that equips your team, energizes your work, and expands your impact.

Focused support. Immediate traction.

  • One-on-One

  • Team Training

  • Board Workshops

  • Custom Conference Sessions & Keynotes

Ready to get results? Let’s talk.

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